24 Quotes & Sayings By Jean Webster

Jean Farrar (Edith Wharton) was born in New York City on June 8, 1887. She was educated in England and received a Ph.D. from the University of London and an honorary doctorate from Radcliffe College. She spent most of her life in Paris and died there on October 22, 1979 Read more

Her works include: The Complete Novels (Horace Liveright), Edith's Diary (1931), Summer (1951), The Children (1957), The Living of Charlotte Temple (1962), A Nightingale Falls at Midnight (1968).

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I'm going to enjoy every second, and I'm going to know I'm enjoying it while I'm enjoying it. Most people don't live; they just race. They are trying to reach some goal far away on the horizon, and in the heat of the going they get so breathless and panting that they lose sight of the beautiful, tranquil country they are passing through; and then the first thing they know, they are old and worn out, and it doesn't make any difference whether they've reached the goal or not. Jean Webster
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The world is so full of a number of things, I am sure we should all be as happy as kings. The world is full of happiness, and plenty to go round, if you are only willing to take the kind that comes your way. Jean Webster
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.. in spite of being happier than I ever dreamed I could be, I'm also soberer. The fear that something may happen to you rests like a shadow on my heart. Always before I could be frivolous and carefree and unconcerned, because I had nothing precious to lose. But now -- I shall have a Great Big Worry all the rest of my life. Whenever you are away from me I shall be thinking of all the automobiles that can run over you, or the signboards that can fall on your head or the dreadful, squirmy germs that you may be swallowing. Jean Webster
Getting an education is an awfully wearing process!
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Getting an education is an awfully wearing process! Jean Webster
It's much more entertaining to live books than to write...
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It's much more entertaining to live books than to write them. Jean Webster
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This is your heart. Keep it locked until the chap turns up who has the key. Jean Webster
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The mere idea that you are not in a place for the rest of your life gives you an awfully unstable feeling. That's why trial marriages would never work. You've got to feel you're in a thing irrevocably and forever in order to buckle down and really put your whole mind into making it a success. Jean Webster
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I think that the most necessary quality for any person to have is imagination. It makes people able to put themselves in other people's places. It makes them kind and sympathetic and understanding. Jean Webster
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But what's the use of arguing with a man? You belong, Mr. Smith, to a sex devoid of a sense of logic. To bring a man into line, there are just two methods: one must either coax or be disagreeable. I scorn to coax men for what I wish. Therefore, I must be disagreeable. Jean Webster
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You must remember that you cannot form your character in a moment, my dear. Character is a plant of slow growth and the seeds must be planted early. Jean Webster
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I've discovered the true secret of happiness, Daddy, and that is to live in the now. Not to be ever regretting past, or anticipating the future; but to get the most that you can out of this very instant . It's like farming. You can have extensive farming and intensive farming; well, I am going to have intensive living after this. I'm going to joy every second, and I'm going to know I'm enjoying while I'm enjoying it. Most people don't live, they just race. They are trying to reach some goal far away on the horizon, and in the heat of the going they get so breathless and panting that they lose all sight of the beautiful, tranquil country they are passing through; and then the first thing they know, they are old and worn out, and it doesn't make any difference whether they've reached the goal or not. I've decided to sit down by the way and pile up a lot of happiness. Jean Webster
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You know, Daddy, I think that the most necessary quality for any person to have imagination. It makes people able to put themselves in other people's places. It make them kind and sympathetic and understanding. It ought to be cultivated in children. Jean Webster
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I don't believe it pays to be a great author. Jean Webster
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Isn't it fun to work– or don't you ever do it? It's especially fun when your kind of work is the thing you'd rather do more than anything else in the world. I've been writing as fast as my pen would go every day this summer, and my only quarrel with life is that the days aren't long enough to write all the beautiful and valuable and entertaining thoughts I'm thinking. I've finished the second draft of my book and am going to begin the third tomorrow morning at half-past seven. It's the sweetest book you ever saw– it is, truly. I think of nothing else. I can barely wait in the morning to dress and eat before beginning; then I write and write and write till suddenly I'm so tired that I'm limp all over. Jean Webster
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This new book is going to get itself finished– and published! You see if it doesn't. Jean Webster
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She was worshiping under the blue sky, to the jubilant chanting of the birds. Jean Webster
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Eleven pages– this is a letter! Have courage. I'm going to stop. Jean Webster
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I came up with a pen and tablet hoping to write an immortal short story, but I've been having a dreadful time with my heroine– I CAN'T make her behave as I want her to behave; so I've abandoned her for the moment, and am writing to you. Jean Webster
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I saw a street car conductor today with one brown eye and one blue. Wouldn't he make a nice villain for a detective story? Jean Webster
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Is it snowing where you are? All the world that I see from my tower is draped in white and the flakes are coming down as big as pop-corns. It's late afternoon - the sun is just setting (a cold yellow colour) behind some colder violet hills, and I am up in my window seat using the last light to write to you. Jean Webster
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This is an extra letter in the middle of the month because I'm rather lonely tonight. It's awfully stormy; the snow is beating against my tower. All the lights are out on the campus, but I drank black coffee and I can't go to sleep. I had a supper party this evening consisting of Sallie and Julia and Leonora Fenton - and sardines and toasted muffins and salad and fudge and coffee. Julia said she'd had a good time, but Sallie stayed to help wash the dishes. Jean Webster
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Where is the fun of living if you are going to make yourself a slave to all sorts of petty rules?" asked Patty wearily. Jean Webster
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In the country, especially, there are such a lot of entertaining things. I can walk over everybody's land, and look at everybody's view, and dabble in everybody's brook; and enjoy it just as much as though I owned the land--and with no taxes to pay! Jean Webster